It is with broken hearts that we announce the passing
of our dear Mother, Nellie D. Grimmer, on Friday, November 19,
2021
Born in Grays, England, she was the daughter of the
late John and Violet (Littlewood) Clayden.
Her adventures began at the beginning of WWII when
she was only thirteen. Due to the raging war, schools were closed, and
she was off to work at the Bata shoe factory where they made boots for
the troops. She and her friends did not let a little thing like war
and work deter them from sneaking into dances in the evening, where
she would meet a handsome Canadian soldier that would later become her
husband. Running home from these dances during air raids, they would
run from one shelter to another giggling like the young girls they
were.
After marrying in 1944, she sailed to Canada as a War
Bride. She arrived in Canada the day before her 19th birthday.
Fortunately for her, her mother-in-law was also a War Bride, from WWI,
and understood the struggles that she would endure. Her love returned
from war in September, and they began their lives together, raising
three children in St. Stephen. Her love of dancing never ended, and
she could be found at the Legion any "Dance night" where she
and Ken would dance the night away.
Throughout the many years she enjoyed camping with
friends, travelling, playing darts and cribbage and many social clubs
including the Junior Ladies Auxiliary, The Women's Institute, The
Dancing Grandmas, Creaky joints exercise group, and the Over
45’s dart team. She was a diehard Legion supporter and
enjoyed every event that she could there, including kitchen parties
and many late nights singing with the "Carry on Crew". Some
of her hobbies included knitting, sewing, and
gardening.
She had an infectious laugh and a smile that would
light up a room! She will be missed by
many!
She will be fondly remembered by her son Peter
(Karla), daughter Pamela (Sheila), grandchildren Julie (Lennie), Randi
(Nick), Nashua, Jacob, sister-in-law, Grace, and several great
grandchildren.
In addition to her parents, Nellie was predeceased by
her husband Kenneth, son Kenneth, and sister
Violet.
Resting at The S.O. Mehan & Son Funeral Home
Ltd., 23 Main Street, St Stephen, NB from where the funeral service
will be held on Tuesday, November 23, 2021 at 2 PM. Visiting hours
will be held at the funeral home on Monday, November 22 from 2-4 and
6-8 PM. Ladies Auxiliary R.C.L. #9 will conduct a tribute service on
Monday evening at 7 PM.
Please be advised, that due to
mandatory regulations imposed by the New Brunswick
government, everyone 12 years of age and
older must show proof of vaccination or medical exemption certificate
and government-issued ID to attend the funeral service and/or
visitation. Face masks must be worn at all times while in the funeral
home.
Interment at Moores Mills Cemetery, Moores Mills,
NB.
For those who wish, donations can be made in Nellie's
name to the Heart and Stroke Foundation or a charity of
one’s choice. Condolences may be sent to the family online
at www.mehanfuneralhome.ca
"And in the end, it's not
the years in your life that
count,
it's the life in your
years"